Not every relationship that finds you is meant for you.
Some connections teach you. Some heal you. And some are just meant to show you exactly what you’ve been settling for — so that when the right love arrives, you’ll finally recognize it.
Because when the right love arrives, the love God wrote for you – it won’t feel like a lesson
– Jacqueline Whitney
Stay single until love feels like the kind of peace God has been trying to lead you towards. Wait for the kind of love that doesn’t make you shrink or second-guess yourself. The kind of love that lets you bring your faith to the table without apologizing for it. Wait for the person who honors your heart the way God does – with tenderness, and intention. Someone who doesn’t compete with your calling, but protects it. Someone who sees your softness as sacred, not something to control. Stay single until you’re with the soul who can sit beside you in silence and call it holy.
Because when the right love arrives, the love God wrote for you — it won’t feel like a lesson. It will feel like confirmation. It will feel like coming home.
Jacqueline Whitney is the author Held: A 50 Day Devotional For Parents and All That You Deserve.
